Train drove all the way, more and more away from home, away from the Beijing getting closer ......
Young, always want to grow up, always wanted to get out someday, to Beijing, to Shanghai; later, grown up, only to find that Beijing, Shanghai it is only standing in a bright pearl of the Orient . I get up around the world, London, Paris, Los Angeles, Berlin ......
Each picture is often flashed in my mind, as if that day very close to me, or will very far. In this way, the train of my life began to turn the station, all the way north ......
Love wasted all these years, I often wander outside, running around, the youth has been to spend years, he had no time to look that exciting. And all this, for me, have been accustomed to. Or that it was originally an instinct in my life. But these years, everything is so calm, never scared turmoil. Today, the life force, can not be different for Love fight, only struggling to survive in the years to come.
Love like water, we can not go by a lot of things to reflect on, just know that hurry hurry. The era of us, every day, I feel hard every day in the busy, but never inquiries themselves along the way, camped, seeking what is! Perhaps fate dictates, perhaps the life force. All this so that we have to get busy, always feel busy, always right; always feel busy, it will not live up to our green years, Shaohua time; always feel busy, you can get rid of our spiritual emptiness shadows, perhaps, this is the era of ubiquitous, I also fall into which we suffer.
Everyone is busy, everyone is busy, too busy to care about the people around them; too busy to care about social dynamics; too busy to go to the library; busy has been unable to sublimate his heart; his own spiritual emptiness . We are always busy, we always feeling, we always complain, we always feel very satisfied, always felt not live up to the youth, always felt he would get those years have been expected, career, love ......
Each accolades, each a brilliant achievement, all wrapped up in our own world, we got the, we are lost with. Lose those really useful to us, lost a lot of the times, the society needs.
In fact, life without so busy, busy is good, but busy behind, often we lose more and spiritual dialogue, monologue and spiritual opportunities. We can not even catch, your heart is already facing a shortage of long spiritual food; also can say that we will not have this all of this, we have to live in a world without spiritual sublimation. It will meet all our needs, it will meet all we want. All this led us to the reality completely derailed, causing us to completely behind the forefront of the times, resulting in our eyes gradually became narrow.
Selfishness, indifference, perhaps our generation who possess qualities. Life has made us no longer simply, we always endeavor to pursue something.
I do not know that times have changed, or the era we changed! Is no longer simply become selfish, become indifferent, he became vulnerable. I was already not afford to support the fragile backbone of this era; vulnerability was insufficient in this country, to do something for the community; wrong too weak to barely weathered the years of erosion. The atmosphere of an era, is the need to constantly accumulation, is the need to generations of young people constantly deposited.
Several years later, I once again set foot on the train north, this time to leave, I do not know when we can go back to their homeland team. Only know to follow your heart away, first time, I decided a man walking very far to find a women wear beauty sexy dress ..
Day and we are not owed anything, so there is no need to always grimaced. Day full of gratitude to deal with, at least, it gave our lives to the livelihood of our space.
Smile is an attitude to life, and with wealth, status, not necessarily the contact situation. Perhaps all day worried about a rich man, but perhaps a poor feel comfortable: A disabled person may safely philosophical; a smooth situation people may frown, a living person may meet with a dilemma smile ......
A person's mood affected by the environment, which is normal, but you bitter face, a Kudachoushen attitude, on the situation will not be any changes, on the contrary, if shallow smile to the day, that adds affinity, others more willing to contact with you, the timing will get more.
Just feel a sunny person, the actual ability to feel the sun, even if one were often suffer gravely from that day how boast Jiao? Day is always a mirror shine is our image, when we cry, crying the days when we smile, the day also smile.
Smile from the heart, calm, neither make fun of the weak, nor is strong flattery. Smile when flattery is a fake smile, and the mask is not lasting, if there is opportunity, they will be removed the mask, revealing the original features.
Smile no intention, either superiors or the doorman, that smiling face is the same, smile is the respect of others, respect for life together is. Smile is a "reward" of interpersonal relations as the balance of forces on the physics says you how other people and how you will, the more you smile to others, others of your smile It will be more.
After misunderstood others, can choose rage, but also able to pick smile, smile general strength will be even greater, because the smile will deter other's mind, which was revealed to the broad-minded air from the other person that a small, ugly .
Qingzheziqing, muddy those from the cloud. Sometimes too much explanation, the debate is not necessary. About those vexatious, deliberately defamatory, give him a smile, and the remaining thing let the time to prove better.
In those days, it was always said that Einstein's theory is wrong, and that there one hundred scientists from testifying, Einstein knew it, only faint smile, said, one hundred? To so many people? Just to confirm my really wrong, a man in his early will be fine.
Einstein's theory has stood the test of time, and those who let a smile defeated.
Smile from the heart, you can not pretend. Maintain the "Smile" mentality, life will be more boast Jiao. There are twists and turns in life there is defeat, there is a misunderstanding, and that is normal, to the day in a Tandoor, then the first should be cleared hinder mind. Smile essence is love, know how to love, will not be trivial.
Smile is the best life business card, who do not expect upward with a philosophical brothers who pay it? From a smile can give a sense of determination, but also give others a sense of determination and very well inspire potential.
Between brothers smile is the best language, a natural outpouring of smile, worth a thousand words, either the first time met worth mentioning, no matter whether long acquaintance, smile can narrow the gap between people, and the other of each other room feel warm.
Smile is a virtue, and is a very important virtue, the essence is affectionate smile, is encouraged, it is warm. Real people who know how to smile, always made more simple than others of the opportunity to succeed is always simple.
A change of sexy clothes for parts mood,
A relationship hard-won, the right people can not make the event. When we are emotional problems, we tend to be very impulsive, but
The impulse of the devil. Emotional problems, need to calm down and really think about, you need to change yourself how to recover your her.
Restore is an art, and now I am beginning to say how the brothers chase back!
1. Your self-worth: In fact, a lot of brothers to understand the value of this thing, saying that high handsome, rich and tickets, but you have
Money have tickets, but there are still more money than you have tickets in. So the brothers self-worth is that I value now have, or I now
The value is not high, but she was able to see my future high-value, which is a lot of people say that the potential of stocks. It is now worth not very
One way to high brothers, reflects a sense of the future. Valuable brother is the embodiment of value, but not to teach you to go to the girl that she buy
Like, ask her to dinner anytime!
2. Your frame: a frame is very important when one is the brother of high value, but not the frame, only for girls
Buy this buy that buy sexy dress, she's happy to Bo, then brother, you still low value, just started high economic value only, to attract girls
Force enough. Your framework needs to be kept on a holding to what extent? The extent depends on your own, that they want to see you
What play is a prodigal son type, Imperial type, or a poet type.
3. Your image: Your image is very important, when you show your worth, but your image is the Cock wire, or you do not meet
Value, then the first impression will give the girl you're cheating on her, so you need to change the image.
Well, that's what I said to the three brothers, and now I talk about how specific to the brothers to re-use these three to come here.
First, the change of self-worth, and some brothers and low intrinsic value, so you give your girl look futuristic;
Second, change the frame, when your value is she saw, you can not go in her frame again, you take her into your
The framework will follow you, not you followed her;
Third, the image, a new image, a new image is very good, when you change the image appears in front of you things
Achieved, then in front of you and causing a new attraction, as long as you do after, then you basically have succeeded, because she
Not that you are the original contact, but rather a new you, but she did not know a know people know, this is a big
A sense of curiosity.
Summary, when emotional problems, after which there is no break in before, you need to safeguard this love, the specific words, I am here
If, if really unlucky, then you broke up. First, the first thing is, first calm down, do not give her crazy
Phone calls, send text messages, this is useless, just broke up, her attitude towards you is still very disgusted, you have to give her a cushion of time.
Incidentally, at this time, to enhance their own good, so after three or four months, you can begin to chase up.
Dickens 100 years ago, once he said: "This is the best of times, it was the worst of times; it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness; it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity; it is the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness; it is the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair; in front of people with all sorts of things before the people nothing; people are direct to heaven, people are straight to hell. "
In fact, the era of Dickens life is nothing compared with now. At least as good as the wealth gap is so big now, people's moral decline is better now serious. Therefore this phrase used to describe our 21 century, in fact, re-fitting.
Living in today's China is really not easy. Men and women is not easy, this is a great truth. For a house, car, sexy clothes, tickets, child, seat, people often busy mentally exhausted, bruised and battered. Many people even once world-weary mood.
But in fact, we should not be overly pessimistic. Because of this era, but it is still a lot of opportunities. Do not you see how much upstart, a few days ago, or a pair of lackluster appearance, turned the corner after among the upper classes. So the opportunity to "Cock wire counter-attack" is still a lot of. And this story staged every day.
Please remember my words, it will make you benefit forever.
First, the more in the face of adversity, the more you want to learn to be strong. The more adversity, the more you want to keep the confidence. The heavier the ball fall, bounce higher, many people have said so. But forget the reason why this sentence was established, there must be a precondition, that is, the ball must not be deflated. So we in the face of setbacks, they must not lose out confidence.
Second, to adjust their goals. If the direction is wrong, in fact, they are each a step back to move forward. Absolutely can not use one way.
Third, not blind comparisons. Life is the most important thing is to learn with everybody, with their ratio. A lot of friends around the sun of his own happiness, and perhaps live not happy. The so-called "life more lacking in what the people, the more they like to show off what", that is the truth.
Fourth, do not complain. Studies have shown that the more people who like to complain, the more the poor. Taiwan goes saying goes, "One eyebrow to decide their fate, eyebrow lucky to come." Instead of complaining of darkness, as lit candles! Absolutely can not let the negative energy to occupy his head.
Fifth, we must keep up the team, with the right people. Learn to know people, employers, and distinguish people, look, understand people's skills. This will let you in the workplace, in society, and even in the intelligence field has become even easier.